



A writer recounts falling in love at 24 with a 56-year-old hardware store owner she met through a preservation presentation, marrying him a year after their first kiss despite objections from both families.
She describes the cultural gaps of the marriage, including generational references she didn't share, and the imbalance of power she found herself comfortable with at the time.
Within five years of meeting him, she became a widow and single parent to two children under five, a outcome her sister had explicitly worried about before the wedding.
The author says she does not regret the marriage, though she acknowledges aspects of it she wasn't prepared for.
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