The real reason many Americans are cutting ties with their parents and siblings

A researcher who conducted 68 interviews with adults estranged from relatives argues the trend isn't driven by therapy culture or childhood trauma, but by a mismatch between two models of family: one demanding loyalty and obedience regardless of treatment, another requiring mutual respect and accountability. National survey data cited puts estrangement from fathers at 26% of adult children and from mothers at 6%, with a separate 2020 survey estimating 27% of Americans, or roughly 67 million people, have been estranged from a relative at some point.

The piece notes no study has tracked these rates over time, so claims of a sudden crisis aren't supported by the data, even as smaller families and constant smartphone contact may make each estrangement feel heavier than in past generations.

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